Attraction

We like to think we are fearless, eager to explore unknown lands and soak up new experiences, but the fact is, we are always terrified. Maybe the terror is part of the attraction. Some people go to horror movie. Dive into dark water. and at the end of the day, isn't that what you'd rather to hear about? If you've got one drink and one friend and 45 minutes. Slow rides make for boring stories. A little calamity. Now that's worth talking about.

At Melbourne.

Hello my new life.

My nightmare is nearly over.

New life, New city, new me.

I kissed someone on Sat night. totally stranger. he was cute, sweet lovely guy.

and finally I feel like moved on, new me, one new kiss makes cutting off ex ghost.

till you kissed someone, still feel like that my body is part of ex. not 100% mine.

but one, just one new kiss made me totally different feeling. I think I got back my parts which I was missing little while. I said thank you to cute guy,

Hello new me, hello new life. goodbye Canberra.

Lessons,

A couple of hundred years ago, Benjamin Franklin shared with the world the secret of his success. "Never leave that 'till tomorrow. he said which you could do today this is the man who discovered electricity. you'd think more of us would listen to what he had to say. I don't know why we put things off, but if I had to guess, I'd say it had a lot to do with fear. Fear of failure. Fear of pain. Fear of rejection. sometimes the fear is just of making a decision, because what if you're wrong. what if you make a mistake you can't undo. whatever it is we're afraid of one thing holds true. Than by the time the pain of not doing the thing gets worse than the fear of doing it. It can feel like we're carring around a giant tumor, And you thought I was speaking metaphorically.

He who hasitates is lost. We can't pretend we haven't been told. We've all heard the proverbs, heard the philisophers, heard our grandparents warning us about wasted time. heard the damn poets urging us to seize the day. Still, sometimes we have to see for ourselves. We have to make our own mistakes. We have to learn our own lessons. we have to sweep today's possibility under tomorrow's rug until we can't anymore. until we finally understand for ourselves what Benjamin Frankin meant. that knowing is better than wondering, That waking is better than sleeping. And that even biggest failure, even the worst, most intractable mistake beats the hell out of never trying.

Responsibility

Remember when you were a kid and your biggest worry was, like, if you'd get a bike for your birthday or if you'd get to eat cookies for breakfast. Being an adult? totally overrated. I mean seriously, don't be fooled by all the hot shoes and the great sex and the no prents anywhere telling you what to do. Adulthood is responsibility. Responsibility, it really does suck. Really. really sucks. The scariest part about responsibility? when you screw up and let it slip right through your fingers. Unfortunately, once you get past the age braces and training bras, responsibility doesnt go away, it can't be avoided. Either someone makes us face it or we suffer the consequencea. And still, adulhood has its perks. I mean the shoes, the sex, the no parents telling you what to do.. That's pretty damn good.

Miracle.

There are only two ways to live your life.
one is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.

It takes a couple seconds to say Hello, but forever to say Goodbye.

Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew.

At Canberra.

Glass.

Relationships are like glass.

Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.

At Sydney.

Three sides to every story

Always three sides to every story, yours, his & the truth, which is usually somewhere in the middle. only you can decide. - Trav

At Bondi beach

Stopped.

Everyday we get to give the gift of life. It can be painful, it can be terrifying, but in the end it's worth it. Every time. We all have the opportunity to give. maybe the gift is to try and make a simple apology, maybe it's to understand another person's point of view, maybe it's to hold a secret for a friend. The joy supposedly is in the giving, so when the joy is gone, when the giving starts to feel more like a burden, that's when you stop. But if you're like most people I know.
you give till it hurts, and then you give some more.

Arguments

When I am getting ready to reason with a man.
I spend one-third of time thinking about myself and what I am going to say.
and two-thirds thinking about him and what he is going to say..

At Scullin.

The Key

The key to change... is to let go of fear.

At Canberra

Expect nothing.

Expect nothing and accept everything and you will never be disappointed. and punctuality is disappointing if no one is there to appreciate it.

At Roppongi.

What if.

what if you don't feel that your partner cares about you.
what if you don't feel that your partner loves you.
what are you going to do?

Moment.

I hold it true, whate'er befall; I feel it, when I sorrow most; 'Tis better to have loved and lost Than never to have loved at all.

At Mossy point

Tell me why I feel this way.

If you believe in love, but find it difficult to explain - this is for you.

At Australia

Face to...

Can miles truly separate you from friends....If you want to be with someone you love, aren't you already there?

At Mossy point

Done well.

Love many things, for therein lies the true strength, and whosoever loves much performs much, and can accomplish much, and what is done in love is done well.

go ahead.

If you wait to do everything until you're sure it's right, you'll probably never do much of anything.

At Australia

Across the fields

You don’t learn to walk by following rules, you learn by doing, and falling over, and it’s because you fall over that you learn to save yourself from falling over. It’s the greatest thrill in the world and it runs away screaming at the first sight of bullet point.

The balloons only have one life and the only way of finding out whether they work is to attempt to fly around the world.

The jet stream is a very strong force and pushing a balloon into it is like pushing up against a brick wall, but once we got into it, we found that, remarkably, the balloon went whatever speed the wind went.

- Richard Branson

At Korea Seoul

To the another.

Have you found joy in your life?
and... have you brought joy to another life?

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